Changing Careers At Age 50 - Any Advice?

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By Dewey Cheatem

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 I have been employed in the same field for all of my adult life. I worked hard and sacrificed over the years to get where I am now. What does it mean to work hard and sarcrifice you may ask. Well for me it was putting my goals in order. When my friends were travelling to ski country or renting condos on the beach, I was at the office making sure the drawings were complete by the deadline for the latest project that was due for construction bidding and permitting. Some people think that being in the office is a piece of cake. I can assure you that when the president or the office manager is screaming at you in mid December that the drawings need to be done....the pressure can be intense.

In my efforts to prove myself valuable to the companies I worked for I put my personal life second. Need someone to work nights? I'll do it. Stay the whole weekend to help meet a deadline? That's me, I'll stay. Not that I didn't also mind the added benefit of overtime pay. I didn't have an engineering degree. I didn't make the big bucks. I figure'd I could supplement my income with the occasional stretch of overtime. I knew that eventually the fact that I did not have a degree may come back to haunt me. I didn't know it was going to happen so suddenly.

I struggled over the last 2 years to keep a job. The construction industry has been hit very hard by this economy. I personally have been witness to floors of office space with empty cubicles where architects were previously designing spaces for new or renovated buildings. I have seen the emply cubicles. Row upon row where once sat draftsmen and designers and engineers. Now the cubicle is empty. The chair is there. The desk is there. The power strip is there but the employee is no longer there. This past Thanksgiving the ax finally hit me. As I sat at my desk an email was received. No subject matter. It was from the CEO of the firm. "Effective noon today all employees are terminated". How's that for a Thanksgiving to remember. I was not expecting that kind of an email. I was expecting something more like "Hope everyone has a nice Thanksgiving, why don't you all take the afternoon off and beat the traffic".

Three months have now passed. My resume is posted on the major job boards. I have contacted former employers and associates in an effort to try to get a job. I have yet to get a phone call. I am beginning to get discouraged in the job search.

There are reasons why the construction industry has been hit so hard. The biggest reason is the credit crunch. Banks have slashed the credit lines for most employers to what they owe. No longer can an employer issue paychecks using the million dollar line of credit he/she may have used in the past to meet payroll during a down time. I don't see this issue being addressed by the current administration as of yet. I keep reading about health care. Yes I need health care too but I sure would like to have a job. I hear the rhetoric from the politicians. A $5,000 tax credit for small businesses to help spur job growth. Sorry but that is just not going to spur any employers to create a job. The cost of health care alone is over $1,000 a month for family health care plans.

I have now enrolled in classes at a local college. I have learned that I can collect unemployment benefits as I attend night school. I will continue to seek employment but I also am thinking it's time for a career change. How does one choose a new career at the age of 50? Part of the reason I feel that I am not being contacted is that prospective employers are looking at my age. I have no college degree. The college grads these days are being hired at bargain salaries. I have kids and a mortgage. I don't mind taking a paycut but I do have responsibilities that need to be addressed.

One of the trends that I am seeing now is that employers are offering jobs on a temporary basis. These jobs pay no where near the former pay scales that were standard only two years ago. These jobs also come with no benefits. No health care, no vacation time, no sick leave. The job I was just let go from was on a three month trial period. Supposedly after the three months were up I was to be informed how I fit in with the company and that I would be either hired full time or let go. I worked hard for those three months. I had to sacrifice time with my kids in order to be able to prove myself a valuable asset to the firm. After the three months were up I was told "We are extending you for another month". That was how they were going to get around paying for my benefits. How long can they keep extending me I asked? As long as they want was pretty much the answer. I have friends who are going through the same thing now. We will review your performance after three months and make a decision. Three months go by and then the decision is "we are extending you at this time indefinitely".

Is this the new norm for employment in this country? I have worked hard my whole life. I was a paperboy, I was a pizza delivery driver. I have worked two jobs at times in an effort to further my career and to save money in order to buy a home. Is that not what I was told was the Amercian Dream. Work hard? Sacrifice? Set priorities? I have done these things for close to thirty years now. At age 50 I am at a crossroads. How do I change my career at 50 and still provide for my children?

 

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singlmomat52 Level 2 Commenter 2 years ago

I think you just have to go for it. A friend of mine graduated as a Architect at the age of 50. She is doing great. Took her some years, as she did not apply herself as she should have, but she finally did it. So I think whatever you put your mind too you will accomplish. You have obviously thought deeply about this because it shows in your Hub. Keep us posted, this Hub and your updates may encourage others to follow suit. Great Hub! Thanks for sharing. Well written!

Tommy 2 years ago

Well, I have been looking at articles on the web about changing jobs at 50 and have not found anything that is worth reading, I am 50, I am at the top of my game, I have firm offers to change jobs at another company, and I am hesitant to do so, because I have been with the same company for my adult life, however it all comes down to being happy, and if you are stuck in a job where you are going no where you have the choice of being miserable which could lead to becoming sick, etc....I chose to move on.

Sometimes management puts people in place without taking a look at the talent that they actually have, and make terrible mistakes.

I really wish that someone could post something on the internet based on experience rather than just a column to take up space...just my two cents.

Phil 16 months ago

Best advice? Don't!

Stay where you are - It's too late.

Enjoy your stability and money and give more time to your kids without the stress of a new job.

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Dewey Cheatem Hub Author 8 months ago

I see by the traffic that this Hub is getting more reads now than it was when I wrote it two years ago. I was lucky I was offered a job last November by a guy who told me he was going to teach me how to do something different. It was still mechanical design, but it was something completely different. I worked hard and focused. There was so much to learn. Codes, calculations, equipment, seismic requirements etc. I never put so much effort into a job. The boss never gave any feedback that was positive. All he ever did was tear his employees down. I was being trained by one of his employees who told me "he makes me feel like I have my testicles in my hands when I leave at night". I would never let a man make me feel that way. The money would not be worth it. I was told by many of my associates that I had caught on faster than anyone who had ever held my job. "How many people have held this job?" I asked. Four and they have all been fired. Well... the boss told me he doesn't like stupid questions during the interview. I asked a question of him one day. He looked at me like I was a moron. Next day... "You're Fired". How's that for a kick in the ass. I was looking for a career change, got it. Considered it a godsend and worked harder than hard. Now I am unemployed again. Toughest economy since the Great Depression. I don't wish bad things on my former boss. I know that when you wish bad things on people they come back to you. I do wish this though. I hope one day that my bosses kids work for a prick like him. I hope one day he sees in his kids the pain he has caused me and my two sons. I was really looking forward to the summer of 2011. I wanted to take my boys places and do things. For the third year in a row I could not do that. I count every penny and make the best of a bad situation. I know it could be worse. That's what keeps me going.

Bruce 2 weeks ago

I feel the same way,I have been an Automotive technician for 30 years,the industry has changed and the business is slowing down...I am 53 and in good shape,I want to find a new career and find something paying at least $40,000 a year.I could be a lot of things and I am very good at a lot of things but it seems no one wants someone over 50.If anyone knows of a job email me at tyler591@hotmail.com

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Window Pain Level 1 Commenter 10 days ago

I’ve been in the glass & aluminum industry since my teens. Like Dewey, I don’t have a university degree but in my industry no one does. I have fourteen certificates of Continuing Education related to my field. I’ve been working mostly as an estimator, but also as a coordinator and various other positions.

I am 51 and just quit my 17th job! (31 years in Toronto, 1 year in Edmonton, 19 years in Vancouver).

Why have I had so many jobs? For the exact reason Dewey mentioned in his post – personality issues with my bosses. Of the 17 only two were decent guys, but work ran out. People wouldn’t believe the abuse I’ve gone through but a few highlights are; the boss who told me I have to flush his feces down the toilet because he doesn’t have time, being told I am not to see my doctor anymore because the boss will decide my medical treatments from now on, being denied any vacation for three years, first week’s pay withheld indefinitely, not allowed to wear a hard hat or safety boots on construction sites, etc.

But generally it’s the atmosphere in these construction subcontractors that’s always the same; ridicule and anger are the only managerial tools, fervent anti-intellectualism, brutal sexism and racism, basically the bottom of the social barrel. If you don’t fit into this category, you’ve got a target on your back.

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I have a theory based on long observation about the evolution of the mindset of these bosses. When they first start their business their intentions are simply to earn enough money to make a better life for themselves, but slowly that priority changes. After a few years the boss will make more and more decisions based solely on his ego. He’ll gladly lose thousands of dollars then scream at you for making an extra photocopy that he felt was unnecessary.

Eventually, the entire operation becomes his little kingdom, where he rules supreme. His main “enemy” at this point are knowledgeable, strong-minded people.

Hard work won’t save you with these guys. They value loyalty, which has a unique definition in their minds. Others would call it unquestioning obedience. When the boss says “team” he means he’s the quarterback and you’re the schmuck who gets pummelled.

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HOW DOES ONE GO ABOUT CHANGING CARERRS?

Well first off and most importantly one needs to regain personal confidence. The years spent working under such people can make a person feel useless. To start with you have to [somehow!] forget all the crap that put you in this position.

Harbouring negativity will show in your character. It will give you the stink of victimhood which potential employers will see between the lines of your cover letter and interview.

Carrie Fisher said something brilliant in her one woman show, “Resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die.”

Another thing to do is to believe that you’re better off not knowing what tomorrow will be, than knowing for certain it’s more of the same crap that’s making you so unhappy.

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A few years ago I took a week long course to become a home energy assessor. It was a government program and I fit into the work like a dream. Then the Conservatives got their majority and cancelled the program. It was the only time in my life that the result of an election ended my future plans.

In 1991 I decided to go back to school to study journalism. As I was applying to universities; CBC laid off 1,500 journalists, CTV 900, Global 500, and so on down the line. I stopped applying to universities.

Also in 1991 I took an extensive government-sponsored course to determine my abilities and most suitable job. After weeks I got my results; journalist, writer, flenser.

Flenser?!? I had to look that up – a man who cuts the blubber from whales and walruses. I can’t even eat a fish on my plate that’s served as a whole fish. Besides, land-locked Edmonton has limited whaling opportunities and a spectacular lack of walruses.

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Now here I sit, again unemployed and thinking about changing careers. I’m so tempted to stay in my comfort-zone and get another job in the glazing industry, but I know I’ll still be unhappy.

I am an expert in Excel and have written spreadsheet systems for many companies. That is interesting and rewarding work but not enough to keep continuously employed.

The best job I ever had was working part-time at the local video store. Pay was woefully inadequate but I got to meet lots of people and it was relaxing and fun.

Now it’s time to recap my strengths and look positively for a new line of work. Hmmm “dog walker” or how about “anaesthetist” I could lie about my qualifications!

Good Luck Dewey, and to everyone else.

Sincerely,

Werner

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Window Pain Level 1 Commenter 4 days ago

I found a job today! Start full time tomorrow.

Weird thing...

I replied to an online job posting for this job at this particular company. I sent in my résumé last week. This morning I called to follow up.

They said they were looking for an estimator, but never posted an online ad. And the email addresses and people I sent my résumé to... they'd never heard of!

Nonetheless, I emailed my résumé to them at 10 AM. At 11:30 I got a call, and at 1 PM I was in the interview (which lasted 2½ hours).

When I left at 3:30 (if you're no good at math) I had the job, and was feeling elated!

Now I can pay all my bills. Okay, the elation was short-lived, but I still feel pretty good.

Werner

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